It Takes Two to Tango

Most times, you'd have this girlfriend that you give almost everything. Your love, your time, your money, your everything. Whenever madam beeps you, we are ready to listen to Timi Dakolo's  'Iyawo Mi'. She hardly calls you. All of a sudden, Madam will leave you to follow one 'innit' guy like that. You'd be devastated. you'd feel that your world has crumbled, but it has not. Your  beautiful life is just beginning.
 As for the ladies, you'd have this boyfriend that you give almost everything. Your time, your love, your wife material skills, you hang your legs to the west, east, north or south just for him, you even give this guy your money, your money my sister. This Oga will not give you shi-shi. This is an Oga that if you  forget your vexation money when you are going to visit him, OYO is your case. Whenever this Oga calls you, he hardly calls sha, Obiwon's 'Obi mu o' is what we would listen to next. One wonderful day, Oga will tell you that his mother doesn't like you or his pastor said you are surrounded with dirt or he doesn't like dark girls, slim girls or fat girls and he can't do this with you anymore. Don't cry o, mba, leave Oga alone. Open your eyes next time. Your life  is just beginning and you probably don't know what God is delivering you from.
Don't move into the next relationship to punish your partner for the sins of the former one. Your new partner is not the cause of your frustration. Feed your new relationship, cherish it and watch it grow. Don't finish your wife/husband material skills on one boyfriend or girlfriend that won't appreciate your efforts and your skill. The relationship is not for one person to carry it on the person's head. It takes two to tango.


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