Guys Room. Dear brothers,

Morning beautiful people, cheers to the weekend. How are you doing today? What's the plan for today? Yesterday was Friyay! I'm so sorry, I wasn't really able to post anything. I'll make it up to you.

You are welcome to the Guy's Room segment of your favourite blog. I completely enjoyed the Ladies Room post. Come and see views. I was just feeling myself. Thanks to you all.

You know this life is very funny. Most guys treat a lady badly, they call her names, they make her feel less of herself. She's always sorry for things she didn't do. She has to say she's sorry because you blame her for everything you are going through. She calls you and texts you, but you return the call when you feel like, you hardly ever reply her texts. She still holds on, she believes everything you've said about her, she believes you are doing her a favour by agreeing to date her. You have the freaking guts to tell her that other girls ask you out.

One day, she decides that she has had enough. Her heart is broken beyond repair, she picks up the pieces and decides to move on. Gradually, she regains her confidence. She now believes that everything you've said is a big lie. She realises that she's beautiful, smart and intelligent. You don't even deserve her, she deserves someone better than you. She works on herself and she looks so beautiful now. She meets a new guy who worships the floor she steps on. The guy makes her feel like she's the only girl in the world.

All of a sudden, the devil decides that it is you that he'll use today. You look at her pictures on various social media platforms and the scales fall from your eyes. You now realise that she's the best person you've ever been with and you love her so much. You forget when she was trying to reach out to you and when you stopped calling and taking her calls. Now, you want her back, you are so sorry for everything you have done, you want to make things right, you want her to let go of her pride and come back to you, you want to know when she became this rude, you are head over heels in love with her. You forget all those bitter memories, she can't forget it bro. She'll forgive you, but she'll definitely not forget. Nobody is a fool. You don't expect any magic to happen. She has moved on with her life, you should do so too. Why do guys want to get back with a girl they treated badly and when she's moved on and she's happy? This is not just for singles, it happens in marriages too.

Dear brothers, you can't keep a good woman down. You feel the world is at your beck and call, but it might be too late when you realise the mistake you've made. Don't treat anyone the way you feel like. Stop reducing people's self esteem. Always say something nice. You might lose a diamond forever. Oya, my brothers, come and answer my question o jare.

Please, leave a comment, have a beautiful day.

Comments

Helen said…
So sad...some even go to the extent of stalking you��
Imagenaija said…
Sure they do. Thanks for leaving a comment.
Zest said…
First, I must say it is bad and shows low level of reasoning to treat a lady as though she is less human or less important than you are. Some do that because of their level of civilization or they are not "informed." Education is not a waste of time after all.

However, I must also point out that there is this common misconception about guys, often exhibited by the female folks, that "Most guys treat a lady badly."

Sorry ladies, but I don't think this is usually as much as we make it sound. If not for anything, I am a guy, most of my friends are guys, and surely, I don't see "most" of them treating their lady the way it is often described.

Also, there is this saying that "the bush does not sway unless their is wind." Sometimes it could be the lady's fault.

This is not a justification for any man to treat a lady like she is nothing, no, never. Instead, it is a call for the need to investigate into the matter and try to find out what really causes such actions. Perhaps not all such cases results from the guy being an "animal." Perhaps it is because some of us have misinterpreted the "be yourself" to mean, don't change your bad habits... anyone who loves you should love EVERYTHING about you. No need for improvement.

Finally, if you are a lady and "he" treats you like you are a nobody and you are still their wailing.... Sorry. Stil waiting to be told to move your a*s and move on? Pssss..
Imagenaija said…
Thanks a lot dear. There are great guys, but some guys are not just...