You know a woman has no church...

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You are welcome to the Guys Room segment on our blog. Today, we are going to focus on the popular cliché athat states that 'a woman has no church'. This cliché is not strange in our wonderful country Nigeria. Of course, a woman has no church, she's supposed to follow her husband to any church he decides to go to.

So, a woman that was attending a particular church before she met her husband should abandon her church completely and follow someone to a church she's probably not comfortable with? Don't talk about one God here. Don't say is it not the same church? It's not o. Not with the way churches are springing up everywhere talking about sowing seeds, wealth and prosperity and forgetting that Christ is coming again.

Religious and denominational differences should be addressed properly. Ask the Aunty if she's willing to follow you to your church, if she decides otherwise and you want your future wife to go to the same church with you, leave her \alone. If you are not willing to go to her church, leave her alone. Carry your boring 'a woman has no church' talk and get the hell out. While it is good that couples should go to church together so they can grow spiritually, it doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. I know great couples with strong religious and denominational differences. Couples that pray together stay together, but you can pray with someone who doesn't attend your church, right?

If you know you fall under this 'a woman has no church' category, look for your kind and work things out with the person. Leave other people that are not interested in your ideology alone. You can also get a wife that attends your church so we can rest. I know love is about compromise, but when the other party is not interested in the compromise, don't force the person. Spiritual compatibility is very important. Look for someone who can keep up with you spiritually. Someone that will go to the throne of grace with you everytime. That is if you are a constant visitor of the throne of grace.

Dear roommates, what do you think? Leave a comment and have a great Saturday.

Comments

Helen said…
I do not totally agree with that, Gift. The body of Christ is one, and therefore the saying of "church is church" may be right, biblically. All the couple needs to do is find a church you are comfortable with and agree in one spirit to serve God in spirit and in truth, and of course, you will definitely know which church teach the right thing, so its all the matter of agreement with your partner.





Imagenaija said…
I completely understand that we are one in Christ
You know that as a Christian, there are some churches you won't like to worship in. What I'm trying to say is that the saying 'a woman has no church is not right. If you are not comfortable with the church of your prospective partner and you are not ready to leave your church, you are free. Nobody should tie you down with the stale cliché.