Blog readers Zest, Maraya, Gift, Chidinma, Sylvia, Harmony and other blog readers currently in camp, how is camp? How far your otondo runs? Be good boys and girls o. Harmony and Chidinma complained that they didn't eat yesterday. Blog readers Zest, Maraya, Gift, Sylvia and Anayo, have you eaten? Hey blog readers, how are you doing today? It's Wednesday and our Ladies Room is about to go down! I play too much these days. I want to specially thank those that commented yesterday. Blog reader Mary, I was so excited when I saw your comment. Thank you so much.
You are welcome to our Ladies Room segment. Today, sisters and brothers in the Lord, we are going to talk about how to deal with an FBI boo, lol.
Trust is very important in a relationship. If you have trust issues, what exactly are you looking for in a relationship? If you tied your destiny to be a monitoring spirit, a relationship is not for you. Lee anya, if you want to join the FBI, do that honourably.
A friend shared her story with me. I asked her for permission to share her story and she agreed. Her boyfriend actually sent someone to monitor her. He wants to know where she is every time. He forgets that she's a student and that FBI attitude is unacceptable. Last week, she went to get something and he sent someone to follow her. While she was walking, she stopped to take a call. One of her classmates, a guy, wanted to see her. The guy was in front of her hostel. People of God, when she got to the front of her hostel, she finally talked to her classmate. The jobless human being that was asked to follow her reported to her boyfriend. This jobless human being said she went to see her school boyfriend. He even had the guts to describe what he was wearing. The annoying part is the fact that the boyfriend called her and started shouting, all the way from Abuja o. He was accusing her of being unfaithful and following small-small boys in school. That is the height of it. If I'm in a relationship with you and you don't trust me, what exactly am I doing in that relationship?
I also heard another story o. A girl has a boyfriend that is a control freak. He wants to know where she is every time. If she says she wants to buy suya or she's buying suya, he wants to talk to the suya man, he wants to make sure she's not lying. See me see trouble o. I'm sure I've shared a story of a girl whose husband asked her to drop out of school because of trust issues. Really? You need a mum like mine to educate you.
If you have trust issues, deal with it before you get into a relationship. If you feel that your partner is cheating on you or might be cheating on you, just know that everyone cannot be a cheat like you. Deal with your insecurities. You want to know how to deal with an FBI or a monitoring spirit boyfriend or fiancé? Dump him or you'd regret it! Many women have lost their lives because they got married to someone with trust issues. Many women have failed to achieve their dreams because of their husband's insecurities. Many women are housewives because their husband is scared that men may want to sleep with them when they work. Dear sisters, do you want that for yourself? I know some ladies are FBI agents too, but we are focusing on the guys today.
Do you think a guy with trust issues can change? Can you advise a sister or a friend to get married to a guy with insecurities? The comment section belongs to you. Have a fabulous Wednesday.
You are welcome to our Ladies Room segment. Today, sisters and brothers in the Lord, we are going to talk about how to deal with an FBI boo, lol.
Trust is very important in a relationship. If you have trust issues, what exactly are you looking for in a relationship? If you tied your destiny to be a monitoring spirit, a relationship is not for you. Lee anya, if you want to join the FBI, do that honourably.
A friend shared her story with me. I asked her for permission to share her story and she agreed. Her boyfriend actually sent someone to monitor her. He wants to know where she is every time. He forgets that she's a student and that FBI attitude is unacceptable. Last week, she went to get something and he sent someone to follow her. While she was walking, she stopped to take a call. One of her classmates, a guy, wanted to see her. The guy was in front of her hostel. People of God, when she got to the front of her hostel, she finally talked to her classmate. The jobless human being that was asked to follow her reported to her boyfriend. This jobless human being said she went to see her school boyfriend. He even had the guts to describe what he was wearing. The annoying part is the fact that the boyfriend called her and started shouting, all the way from Abuja o. He was accusing her of being unfaithful and following small-small boys in school. That is the height of it. If I'm in a relationship with you and you don't trust me, what exactly am I doing in that relationship?
I also heard another story o. A girl has a boyfriend that is a control freak. He wants to know where she is every time. If she says she wants to buy suya or she's buying suya, he wants to talk to the suya man, he wants to make sure she's not lying. See me see trouble o. I'm sure I've shared a story of a girl whose husband asked her to drop out of school because of trust issues. Really? You need a mum like mine to educate you.
If you have trust issues, deal with it before you get into a relationship. If you feel that your partner is cheating on you or might be cheating on you, just know that everyone cannot be a cheat like you. Deal with your insecurities. You want to know how to deal with an FBI or a monitoring spirit boyfriend or fiancé? Dump him or you'd regret it! Many women have lost their lives because they got married to someone with trust issues. Many women have failed to achieve their dreams because of their husband's insecurities. Many women are housewives because their husband is scared that men may want to sleep with them when they work. Dear sisters, do you want that for yourself? I know some ladies are FBI agents too, but we are focusing on the guys today.
Do you think a guy with trust issues can change? Can you advise a sister or a friend to get married to a guy with insecurities? The comment section belongs to you. Have a fabulous Wednesday.
Comments
Like the writer stressed, trust is very important in a relationship. But trust they say is like a pay check, you earn it. However, permit me to share these little ideas:
1. For men, not boys, know that you can't catch a woman by spotlighting her, you will only prompt her to guard up.
2. If you are really interested in what your partner does, the way to know is to make her or him not just a lover, but a friend too. Bring him/her close and watch out for some consistent slips: slip of the tongue, slip of acts etc.
3. Spotlighting your partner will make you so many real and perceived enemies.
4. Why even spotlight your partner, are you forcing him or her to love and respect your relationship, then you have no relationship.
5. However, you must trust your partner and give him or her reasons to trust you as there's no true love without fear and jealousy.
6. There's always God-factor in everything, so pray.